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Tennessee Parenting Plans: Make It Work for You
A Tennessee parenting plan outlines custodial status and parenting time. Parents can agree on a plan, or the court will create one if they can't. Either way, it sets clear expectations for time-sharing and decision-making.
Even if you get along now, a written parenting plan helps prevent future conflict—and protects your child's stability.
Temporary Parenting Plans During Divorce
If you are divorcing, a Temporary Parenting Plan sets expectations while the case is pending. It may not be the final version- but it provides structure and stability for both you and your children.
What to Include in a Tennessee Parenting Plan
Every family is different, but strong parenting plans address:
Your Child's Age & Needs
Younger children and children with special needs may need more structure. Some kids adjust well to two homes—others need consistency. The schedule should fit your child, not the other way around.
Distance Between Parents
If you live in the same city, exchanges are easier. Long-distance or out-of-state parenting plans must address travel costs, flight arrangements, and exchange logistics.
Work Schedules & Primary Caregiver
Courts consider who has been the primary caregiver and each parent's work schedule. Military service, travel, or irregular hours can affect parenting time.
Safety Concerns
If there's a history of abuse, domestic violence, or substance abuse, the court prioritizes the child's safety. Supervised visitation may be required. False allegations, however, can seriously harm your case.
Child's Preference
In Tennessee, children age 12 and older may have input into where they primarily live, though the court always decides, based on the child's best interests, if the Court is ordering this plan.
Holidays & School Breaks
Parenting plans should clearly divide holidays, summer break, and school vacations—whether alternating or splitting time.
School & Activities
Your plan should support your child's education, sports, and extracurriculars, including how mid-week exchanges will work.
Modifying a Parenting Plan in Tennessee
A parenting plan is a court order—it can't be changed without court approval. To modify it, you must show a significant change in circumstances and that the change is in the child's best interest.
Parenting Plans Across State Lines
Yes, you still need a parenting plan if you live in different states. One state will have jurisdiction (often where the first custody petition was filed). Long-distance plans may also limit relocation without court approval.
Temporary Parenting Plans During Divorce
If you're divorcing, a temporary parenting plan sets expectations while the case is pending. It may not be the final version—but it provides structure and stability.
Talk to a Tennessee Child Custody Lawyer
A well-drafted parenting plan protects your child—and your parental rights.
At Kaufman Monroe Law, we help parents throughout Tennessee and the Mid-South create, negotiate, and modify parenting plans that truly work.
📞 Call 901-202-4747 today to discuss your case.
This page is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice and is not a substitute for the services of an experienced and qualified attorney.